Our Community Care Retreats

Healing takes work, and our directly impacted community members move through the world with lingering trauma from the criminal legal system.

Most members of the Incarcerated Children’s Advocacy Network (ICAN) spent decades, including their formative years, behind bars. Members of the National Family Network (NFN) have experienced the extreme sentencing of youth in deeply personal and varied ways. This includes having a loved one incarcerated for an act committed in youth, or being directly impacted by youth-perpetrated harm—whether through surviving violence themselves or losing a loved one—and seeking a path toward healing and wholeness in the aftermath.

  • A unique circle of support

  • An opportunity to be a child again

  • A space to connect and reflect in nature

  • A chance to be heard

  • A focus on healing

  • A time for condemned children to join together with family

  • A bridge building exercise

  • An environment of belonging

  • “These retreats have created a space I look forward to and cherish every year, where my ICAN brothers and sisters can be authentically themselves and continue on our respective healing journeys together.” -Eddie Ellis, ICAN member and CFSY Co-Director of Outreach & Member Services

Many ICAN and NFN members have shared feelings of isolation in their experiences. Our community care work is designed to foster spaces of shared understanding, healing, and belonging—for all who have been impacted by the extreme sentencing of youth.

Over the years

Inaugural 2018 ICAN retreat in Pennsylvania
2020/2021 ICAN virtual retreat
Inaugural 2024 NFN retreat in Maryland
Inaugural 2024 NFN retreat in Maryland
2025 joint ICAN/NFN retreat in Maryland
2026 retreat with CFSY community members across ICAN, NFN, and SJI
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Tips

Here is a link to some helpful information on self-care, including some basic tips below:

  • Get the sleep you need
  • Practice proper breathing
  • Listen to music
  • Enjoy nature
  • Make time for laughter
  • Remind yourself of what you’re grateful for